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MISSIONARY
AESF
The Missionary is a person who takes care of himself and others, striving for constant personal growth and self-development. He adheres to well-thought-out strategies, highly appreciates support and mutual assistance. In their decisions, they focus on their own needs, while trying to take into account the interests of others. The Missionary shows a respectful sympathy for others, appreciates and admires their achievements. In relationships, it can be difficult for him to determine their direction. He is open to tactful advice and constructive feedback, but does not tolerate pressure. Prefers individual work and independence, avoiding superficial interactions. In communication, he values people who share his values and interests.
  • Your ambition

    You sincerely strive to help others, show care and attention to their needs. Your altruism and willingness to support make you a valuable friend and partner (1st function, Agape).
  • Role in society

    You are able to express your feelings vividly and emotionally, to charm and inspire others to romantic exploits. Your passion is contagious, and you know how to create an atmosphere of falling in love (2nd function, Eros).

  • Growth zone

    Although it may be difficult for you to take on the role of mentor, you have an intuitive understanding of relationship development and can learn to guide others (3rd function, Storge).

  • The blind spot

    You need friendship and trusting relationships, although you may not always actively seek them out. You are grateful for the friendly shoulder and appreciate loyalty (4th function, Philia).

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Description by function
  • 1
    First Agape
    They try to take care of themselves and others on their own. They develop strategies and plans for self-development. They focus on a healthy lifestyle, including regular exercise and proper nutrition. They also support each other and share their problems, which helps them feel emotionally comfortable.

    They make decisions based on their needs and preferences when it comes to taking care of themselves and others. For example, they may decide how to take better care of their health or how to devote more time to themselves. They strive to help others, even if they do not consider it their merit. They are always ready to support their friends, relatives and other people from their environment. In their care, they emphasize social responsibility and want to help those who need it.

    They are ready to help and support other people in difficult situations. They may be hurt if their help is rejected or not appreciated. This happens when their actions are perceived as insignificant, and no one thinks that their contribution is important. This can lead to a loss of self-esteem and respect for their initiative. As a result, they may feel lonely and unwanted.
    "Care is love directed at a particular person, with the goal of simplifying and improving their life, and realizing happiness as such. I like to be caring. I show myself in such a way that the person I love can always count on my help. Moreover, help of any kind. I can accept the care myself, the question is how this care manifests itself. I'm mostly used to taking care of myself, rather than waiting to be spoon-fed."
  • 2
    Second Eros
    In relationships, they show sympathy gently and with ease. It can be a reaction to an interesting person or a remarkable behavior. Sympathy is directed at those who they like, evoke positive emotions or make a pleasant impression. Compliments are expressed creatively, trying to find the qualities that the other person has.

    Sympathy consists of symbolic or beautiful statements that express love or respect for those to whom they are addressed. In addition, compliments can be expressed in different ways: through sonorous speech evaluations, gestures, or a smile. Showing sympathy for other people, they try not to cross borders and not to hurt feelings, not to do anything that can cause an emotional conflict. They always try to admire people and their work without abusing their respect.

    They show sympathy to support the interests of those they love and respect. To maintain communication, relationships and mutual understanding, they show love, warmth and respect. They try to find compromise solutions, eliminate shortcomings and contradictions, so that everyone is happy. They try to avoid unnecessary quarrels and create a pleasant atmosphere.
    "Yes, I like to show sympathy. If the person is most pleasant to me, of course) If the sympathy is mutual, it's really cool. I can say that my love is enough. But it must be perceived correctly, that is, I must feel the return. Otherwise, there is no need to show love.

    ​I show my sympathy tactfully, sometimes with business-I'll give you a blanket, light a fire. When you're in a bad mood, I'll calm you down. There are no doubts about sympathy. Before I say anything, or put it forward on someone's account, I observe, draw conclusions. And then I clearly define for myself the attitude to this person."
  • 3
    Third Storge
    It is difficult for them to determine how their relationships are developing and where they can lead. They understand that the situation is unclear and they will have to make a decision on how to proceed. They spend a lot of time trying to figure out what's going on, but they still don't know what to do next. They can assess how their relationship is developing, but they can't predict where it will lead. It is difficult for them to take direct advice, especially if it is given by a stranger or if this advice does not correspond to their point of view.

    Direct advice gives them the feeling that the person who gives it has a lot of experience or knowledge. From their point of view, the person giving advice may not know all the details, conditions, or importance of the situation. They are willing to accept advice, but only if it is given tactfully. They believe that people should be empathetic and not offend or ignore each other's opinions. They are also willing to accept constructive criticism. They believe that others can offer them something valuable, even if they don't fully understand how the world works.
    "I don't like directing) I will definitely not insist on my own and prove something. I will decide that let the person do as he sees fit. Doubts about directions are also common. I accept advice if it's tactful. I'm listening. I am considering the relevance of this advice. And sometimes, I listen (when the advice is actually effective)."
  • 4
    Fourth Filia
    They do not seek close and active interaction with others. They prefer to work alone rather than collaborate with others. They can avoid long conversations with people and keep social contacts to a minimum. They accept friendship, but do not take the initiative in communication and do not continue it if the other person is not active. They always wait for the other person to make the first move. This can be difficult for those who want to make friends with them.

    They love to connect with friends and enjoy the emotions that friendship brings. But they don't want to waste time, so they tend to save it, which can sometimes accompany a friendship. They like it when they have reliable and confident friends with whom they can be honest. Such friends should be close to them for a long time, despite the difficulties that may arise. Because of this friendship, they feel safe and can build deeper and closer relationships.
    "Much more often people take the initiative in relation to me. I don't think it's necessary to speak first - it's stupid. I will not say that it is difficult for me to be friends, but rather it is difficult to find a person with whom I want to communicate so closely and trust. To make friends-I need time-the reliability of a person will speak for itself. And even if we are friends, then there is no doubt about friendship, I visit this friendship one hundred percent, I trust myself, no acquaintances for me can compare with a friend. And I expect the same from my friend."