Fourth Filia
They do not show much desire to actively interact with others. They prefer individual work rather than collective collaboration. They prefer to avoid long conversations with other people and keep their social activity to a minimum. At the same time, they can accept friendship, but do not take the initiative in communicating and do not seek to support it. They wait for someone else to make the first move. This can be difficult for those who want to build friendships with them.
They like to communicate with friends and enjoy the bright emotions associated with friendship. But by avoiding pointless activity, they tend to avoid the waste of time that sometimes accompanies friendships. They value a stable and reliable friendship in which they can be honest with their friends. Friends should be prepared for long-term and reliable interaction with them, despite the difficulties that arise. With such a friendship, they feel safer and can build deeper and closer relationships.
"I have few friends, more acquaintances. I don't draw any hierarchies - if I call a person my friend, then I definitely do it for a reason. For me, friendship seems to be a strong emotional bond between people, which, ironically, is very easy to break, since over the years people have different interests.
Friendship, in my opinion, very much depends on them. Whatever you say, what's there to talk about with someone you don't share a passion with? Whatever different characters you have. Usually, only when I find out what a person is interested in, I can start a conversation.
If a person stops communicating with me, does not answer directly, or evades the answer , I will offer to end the relationship. If he does not agree, I will set conditions for him, and if, accordingly, he does not fulfill them, then I will slowly and surely get rid of him."