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IDEOLOGUE
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A Ideologues in love and relationships strive to be guides of reason. They see relationships as a system of mutual obligations and principles based on respect and deep meaning. The Ideologues are sensitive in showing sympathy, avoiding violating the moral and emotional boundaries of others. They try not to engage in conflicts, respecting the beliefs and feelings of others. When it comes to caring and helping, ideologues may be hesitant, weighing each decision carefully for fear of negative consequences. In friendships, they often take a bystander position, waiting for others to take the initiative.
  • Your ambition

    You have a great understanding of relationships, see the essence of problems and are able to give valuable advice. Your insight and experience allow you to find solutions even in the most difficult situations (1st function, Storge).

  • Role in society

    You are able to express your feelings vividly and emotionally, to charm and inspire others to romantic exploits. Your passion is contagious, and you know how to create an atmosphere of falling in love (2nd function, Eros).

  • Growth zone

    Although it may be difficult for you to show unconditional care, you strive to help others and can learn to be more responsive to other people's needs (3rd function, Agape).

  • The blind spot

    You need friendship and trusting relationships, although you may not always actively seek them out. You are grateful for the friendly shoulder and appreciate loyalty (4th function, Philia).

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Description by function
  • 1
    First Storge
    Relationship professionals with experience and expertise in improving and maintaining relationships. They are able to offer solutions to even the most complex problems, have a deep understanding of various aspects of relationships and the dynamics of family and personal relationships. They are ready to provide practical recommendations that will help you avoid conflicts, find mutually acceptable solutions, and resolve disputes.

    They prefer to manage their own relationships. It is important for them to be respected and take their words as meaningful, take their interests and suggestions into account, support their decisions and be ready to correct mistakes. They are guided by moral principles and personal rules when making decisions and managing relationships with others.

    They appreciate it when their views on the situation are shared. They take advice from others with caution, preferring to rely on their own experience. They believe that sometimes even a critical look from another person can help them figure out what is best to do in a given situation. They believe that it is important not only to listen to the opinion of others, but also to actively and carefully treat it, only then it can be really useful.
    "I really love giving advice, but usually very few people like these tips because of some of their rudeness and categorical nature. Advice is needed when I see what the situation requires or when the person asks for it. I talk about the shortcomings that prevent a person from achieving a goal and give advice with kulstori on how to get rid of it.

    It seems to me that absolutely all people have doubts about how to act. In these situations, I just sit and think, if I don't think of anything, then I go to my friends and ask them what to do and what to do. Most often, after their advice, I'm so "y-y stupid" and still do everything that I originally thought up for myself in terms of actions. I myself do not like it at all when people come to me with advice or moralizing."
  • 2
    Second Eros
    In relationships, they show sympathy gently and easily, reacting to interesting people or their wonderful behavior. Sympathy is directed at those who evoke positive emotions and make a good impression. Compliments are expressed in a creative way, trying to find the qualities that the other person has.

    Sympathy is expressed through beautiful and symbolic statements that express love and respect for those to whom they are addressed. In addition, compliments can be expressed in different ways: through bright speech ratings, gestures, or a smile. Showing sympathy for other people, they try not to break their boundaries and not cause negative emotions, not to do anything that can lead to conflict.

    They always try to admire people and their work without abusing their attention. They show sympathy to support the interests of those they love and respect. To maintain communication, relationships and mutual understanding, show feelings with love, warmth and respect. They try to find compromise solutions, eliminate disagreements and contradictions, so that everyone is happy. They try to avoid unnecessary quarrels and create an atmosphere that matches their sympathies.
    "I like to show sympathy, it's not difficult. I show it with expressive words about how cool you are or with a few tackles, more often in a joking way. In general, I respond more to liking me. And I can't fall in love with a person who has once treated me badly. That's usually the reason why my feelings go bad.

    ​Undoubtedly, feelings are important. I can safely love at a distance, if he made a strong emotional impression on me. That's usually how I fall in love. I've also had it happen so often that a person seems to be very close to you, and you like them, but you still don't interact with them."
  • 3
    Third Agape
    In an area that causes concern, they can be demanding or doubtful. Sometimes they are afraid to make decisions that may lead to undesirable results. However, they gratefully accept gentle and situational support from others. This helps them better understand the situation and balance their thoughts, which is necessary to solve problems and find peace of mind.

    They usually don't like being forced to take care that they don't want to receive or provide. This may be a manifestation of hidden contradictions, fears, or a desire for independence. They feel uncomfortable and avoid people who try to impose care on them. In this area, they have a heightened perception of relationships. Sometimes they don't understand what kind of care people need, and sometimes even themselves. They consider it important to be able to take care of themselves and others in a way that brings only positive emotions to everyone.
    "I can't even take care of myself normally, what can I say about others? I have very little idea what this is and generally don't like to discuss such things too much. As a consequence, I rarely take care of myself and generally don't think I know how to do it normally, and I take standard ideas about caring with hostility.

    When a person takes care of me, I immediately begin to feel like a helpless little child, and therefore humiliated. I rarely need help, and I never ask for it. Usually, when I'm really stuck, I sit with a sad face "a la Pepe the frog" and wait for someone to pay attention to it."
  • 4
    Fourth Filia
    They do not show much desire to actively interact with others. They prefer individual work rather than collective collaboration. They prefer to avoid long conversations with other people and keep their social activity to a minimum. At the same time, they can accept friendship, but do not take the initiative in communicating and do not seek to support it. They wait for someone else to make the first move. This can be difficult for those who want to build friendships with them.

    They like to communicate with friends and enjoy the bright emotions associated with friendship. But by avoiding pointless activity, they tend to avoid the waste of time that sometimes accompanies friendships. They value a stable and reliable friendship in which they can be honest with their friends. Friends should be prepared for long-term and reliable interaction with them, despite the difficulties that arise. With such a friendship, they feel safer and can build deeper and closer relationships.
    "I have few friends, more acquaintances. I don't draw any hierarchies - if I call a person my friend, then I definitely do it for a reason. For me, friendship seems to be a strong emotional bond between people, which, ironically, is very easy to break, since over the years people have different interests.

    ​Friendship, in my opinion, very much depends on them. Whatever you say, what's there to talk about with someone you don't share a passion with? Whatever different characters you have. Usually, only when I find out what a person is interested in, I can start a conversation.

    ​If a person stops communicating with me, does not answer directly, or evades the answer , I will offer to end the relationship. If he does not agree, I will set conditions for him, and if, accordingly, he does not fulfill them, then I will slowly and surely get rid of him."