Third Storge
It is difficult for them to understand how relationships develop and where they lead. They feel that there is something incomprehensible here, and they are dealing with relationships that require a decision to be made. They spend a lot of time trying to understand the situation, but they still don't know what to do. They can assess how their relationship is developing, but they don't know where it will lead. It is difficult for them to take direct advice, especially if it is given by strangers or if the advice does not correspond to their point of view.
Direct advice gives them the impression that the person giving it has a lot of knowledge or experience. From their point of view, the giver of advice may simply not know all the details, conditions, or importance of the situation. They are open to advice, and other people can give them advice, but only in a polite way. From their point of view, people should be tactful in their advice, not offend or ignore each other's opinions. They are also open to feedback and only accept constructive criticism. This person believes that others offer him something valuable, even if he does not fully understand the structure of the world.
"Oh my God, there is no hd To give options for development or correct in small things /discussions-please, but to re-educate – sooooo. Well, I think that an adult is adequate, he knows what to do. But at the same time, I don't need anyone to guide me, although sometimes I like to ask someone for advice, especially if the person knows a certain area better than I do.
Sometimes I don't know what to do, so I ask for advice. I'm terribly confused in myself, but from the outside you can see better. A strong and adequate explanation is ideal with: I accept only if it is worthwhile! And so I don't like it when they try to impose something unnecessary on me, when they impose it, I don't like it. If I have any questions, then I'll ask for advice, so I don't need someone to guide me all the time.
That's when at the university we start to say "this is how to do it well, and this is how bad" it just pisses me off, and I start to argue. Because there are no absolute criteria, a person is free to choose his own path, and some teachers at the university teach us about life. And I came purely for knowledge on the subject. It is important to me that the opinion has a decent support, for example, facts."