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LEADER
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A Leader is a person with developed communication skills who can effectively conduct a dialogue, respecting the opinions of others and directing the communication process. They recognize the value of trust in relationships and take responsibility for strengthening them. The Leader gives advice by looking at problems in a holistic way, and finds flexible solutions based on feedback. However, in showing sympathy, he is careful, fearing excessive attachment, which may interfere with his objectivity. He prefers to express his feelings only when he is sure of a positive response. Despite the fact that a leader needs emotional support, it can be difficult for him to cope with difficulties and find comfort in difficult situations.

  • Your ambition

    You value friendship and trust, and are able to establish strong connections with people. Your loyalty and willingness to support in difficult times make you an irreplaceable friend and leader (1st function, Philia).

  • Role in society

    You have a great understanding of relationships, see the essence of problems and are able to give valuable advice. Your insight and experience allow you to find solutions even in the most difficult situations (2nd function, Storge).

  • Growth zone

    While it may be difficult for you to express strong romantic feelings, deep down you yearn for passion and emotional intimacy. You can learn to show your sympathy more openly (3rd function, Eros).

  • The blind spot

    You gratefully accept care and support, although you may not always be proactive in this area. You know how to appreciate the attention and warmth that is given to you (4th function, Agape).

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Description by function
  • 1
    First Filia
    They understand how and with whom to communicate. They know how to interact effectively with other people. They use different methods of communication, taking into account the character and mood of the interlocutor. They respect other people's opinions and follow the rules of good form in conversation. They also know how to manage the process of communicating with other people. They understand how much you can trust a person.

    Depending on how much time they spend with other people, they realize how safe it is to set boundaries of trust. They understand that trust is the foundation of a healthy and productive relationship. Unpleasant communication makes them want to clarify the situation. They believe that to establish a friendly relationship, you need to find common interests and have a frank conversation to avoid misunderstandings. To do this, you need to make an effort and try to understand each other. Then the relationship will become friendly and productive.
    "It's easy to interact with others, I can tell everyone a lot of stories from my life, quickly get in close contact. However, that doesn't mean I'm blurting out everything. For example, only my friends know about my personal life and experiences, and then not all of them. A friend can sometimes know much more than the other half))

    I choose who to get close to, sometimes people try to talk to me and make friends, but I have very strict criteria. I usually do this if someone is interested, so that they are interested in me and take the first step))) So that it does not look like an imposition, but as a mutual interest.

    ​Trust either exists or does not exist at all, I do not have a little bit in this regard, because if there is no complete openness, then why communicate closely at all? When unfriendly, I try to understand why he behaves like this. If a person is left-wing, maybe the day didn't go well, maybe the character is bad, it happens to everyone. But if a friend is somehow important to me, then it is somewhat painful. Trying to smooth it out."
  • 2
    Second Storge
    People with such qualities confidently guide and give advice. They strive to see all aspects of the problem and develop flexible and effective solutions. They listen carefully and help you achieve your goals by providing intellectual and spiritual advice. People with these characteristics have high self-esteem and confidence in their abilities. They are motivated and open to ideas, advice, and initiatives. They are constantly working to improve the situation for themselves and others by making decisions and giving advice.

    They are able to take a creative approach to solving problems, make the right and appropriate decisions, and confidently move towards the goal in difficult situations. They take into account the feedback from the person and do not impose their opinion if their advice is not listened to. They take into account the interests of the person and provide additional advice, without imposing the result. In parenting, they initiate mutual conversations. They understand that education is not only about establishing rules and order, but also about building a dialogue. They initiate mutual communication and discussion, where they can exchange respect, listen to each other, and try to understand each other's views.
    "I love this very much)) I've been called old granny for a long time, because I grumble and try to get someone to mess with me. But, most importantly, not harshly and everyone in a row, but when I see that a person needs advice. I can offer several options for development, show the situation from all sides, and what to do next is up to the person to decide. I never directly say "Do it because you have to", because everyone goes through some difficult things differently and each path is important in its own way.

    ​If they don't listen, I can either try again or get angry, but I still understand that people learn only from the seventh rake on their own mistakes, so I try to be more patient. Of course, if the situation is constantly repeated and does not change, then I go into a passive observer, because I do not like to waste energy. I will listen to your advice only if the person is an authority for me, these are exceptional cases."
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  • 3
    Third Eros
    The sphere of personal sympathies can sometimes cause people to doubt. They do not seek to express their sympathy openly and usually think twice before doing so publicly. They can only express sympathy when they are fully confident that they will not meet with resistance. These people like to be gently shown their importance in a relationship, without imposing their own ideas about how sympathy should manifest itself. They are frightened when someone shows them strong sympathy, and this causes them unpleasant confusion and nervous tension.

    Feeling strongly sympathetic can lead them to anxious moments, as they may expect something more than friendship to start between them, and they are concerned about how things will develop further. They are afraid of becoming too attached to another person, believing that such attachment may limit their freedom in relationships. Excessive attachment can lead to constant control or imposition of your desires on another person. Because those who show strong attraction cannot give them the freedom they need, such relationships become unhealthy for them.
    "With this, I'm a complete fool, because I usually show my sympathy through jokes and jokes, and in the end they also take offense at me, perceiving it differently. Saying something nice can be very difficult, even if it's on your mind. I also remember that in my first love, the most terrible thing was - if a person suddenly says "Everything for now", or abruptly decides to stop communicating, it literally burned me.

    ​I can't stand open tackles, I like more subtle interaction. At the same time, from my very youth, I felt the desire for strong intimacy. But as it starts to appear, I can abruptly go nuts and sit at home thinking about whether I need it. Here's the thing, in a friendship, this can happen if a person does something that I don't like very much, although in rare moments it happens that I feel detached.

    ​In feelings... Here, too, it is difficult, because only one person I felt one hundred percent undoubted sympathy, this is just the first time. And then it was so that from a sharp "so no I changed my mind" to very strong feelings. This is still the case. And in general, when something was (and is) with someone, there is a feeling that I am WITH NO ONE. That is, there is no specific feeling of "I have obligations with this person to the grave". Even when officially dating, I feel a certain distance, as if I'm sailing in space on a yacht)))"
  • 4
    Fourth Agape
    It can be difficult to show constant care and help in a relationship, because different people may have different ideas about how to do this. Sometimes they may not understand that support is needed in a particular situation. This does not mean that they are inattentive or lazy. They may just need more information or help, even if they are very familiar with the situation. At such times, they need help and support, and then they are ready to respond.

    Some people may be indifferent to care in general because they don't realize their need for it. But in reality, they may need care and unconsciously expect it from others. They may have difficulty comforting and supporting themselves in difficult situations. They need the support of other people, their help and kind words.

    It would be nice if they had a specific template that would help them understand how to properly take care of people or animals, their health and the environment. This template should contain clear theses and algorithms that will help them achieve their goals.
    "I rather like the care that is directed at me. First of all, when I come to visit, I eat the floor of the refrigerator with my friends)) In general, the warmest and most pleasant memories are when my grandmother took care of me as a child, I just dragged myself. I can live without it (I negatively perceive encroachments on my personal space, so in any case, if someone suddenly comes and starts deciding how and what will be better for me, I will not be very happy), but if it is-a superclass. I take it as it is from my relatives, so that the person makes it himself and doesn't ask me again five hundred times if it's convenient for me and if you want another fifty dishes. I myself support rather morally, help to do something practical, and I can take care of it."
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