First Agape
They prefer to take care of themselves and others on their own, developing various strategies and plans for self-development. They pay attention to regular physical activity or proper nutrition. In addition, they share their problems and support each other, which helps them feel comfortable. They decide how best to take care of themselves and others based on their needs and preferences. For example, they can choose how to take better care of their health or how to devote more time to themselves. They strive to help others, even if it is not considered their merit. They constantly provide support to their friends, relatives and other people in their environment.
In their care, they demonstrate social responsibility and want to help those who need it. When they offer help or care, they are willing to support and help others in a difficult situation. They may be hurt if their help is rejected or not appreciated. This usually happens when their actions are perceived as insignificant, and no one understands how important their contribution is. This can lead to a loss of self-esteem and respect for their initiative. In such a situation, they may feel lonely and unnecessary.
"Relationships of care... this is tenderness and mutual interest, respect and careful care for the relationship itself, about the partner, about feelings. I love helping my partner and I consider it absolutely normal. Self-care is perceived with some surprise)) I don't really know how to take it.
I'm not a very sensitive person, as much as I'd like to be. I can help you delicately, but the question is that you can achieve a better result by being direct, right? Everyone has difficulties in choosing, I will not allow you to be capricious out of love for art... In any case, I won't become a listener.
In general, I tend to believe that an adult can decide for himself whether he needs my help or not, and say so. Therefore, in most cases, I take refusals calmly. Exceptions - if I see that the person does not understand the situation or makes it worse. I'll be angry here."