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MOTIVATOR
ESAF
A Motivator's love is based on confidence in their feelings and a deep attachment to people who share their values. They strive for a harmonious and peaceful relationship where both parties can freely express their thoughts and feelings. The Motivator is able to find compromises and creatively solve problems in relationships, respecting the opinion of the partner. However, they can be demanding and prefer unobtrusive support that doesn't violate their personal space. In friendship, the Motivator values close relationships, but can sometimes be passive in their development.
  • Your ambition

    You are capable of vivid and strong feelings, you are able to infect with your passion and enthusiasm. Your emotionality attracts and motivates others (1st function, Eros).

  • Role in society

    You have the gift of perspective and are able to guide others, inspiring them to grow and develop. Your advice is valuable and helps people reach their potential (2nd function, Storge).

  • Growth zone

    Although it may be difficult for you to show unconditional care, you strive to help others and can learn to be more responsive to other people's needs (3rd function, Agape).

  • The blind spot

    You need friendship and trust, although you may not always actively take the initiative to establish close relationships. You value friendly company and support (4th function, Filia).

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Description by function
  • 1
    First Eros
    They build their relationships based on their own sympathies and decide for themselves who is suitable for them and who is not. They draw conclusions based on how they feel about each person. This allows them to freely explore and experience different relationships that are based on their personal preferences. By increasing the degree of attachment, they create long-lasting and close bonds with friends or family. They develop unique and strong relationships based on their own experiences.

    They are extremely attached to people who share their values and beliefs. Close relationships based on deep attachment are characterized by depth and intensity, as they are based on a close connection. They appreciate the ease of relationships and the serenity that people close to them can give them. They seek not only affection and hope, but also true cooperation and warm return.
    "Rather, I show sympathy. I love it very much) Smile, hug, for example, if I know about a person's personal space) I often immediately understand whether a person is sympathetic to me or not, but another thing is that when I get to know them better, it can change. I also like to accept sympathy, although I am very embarrassed)) If sympathy is not accepted, then the reaction is different: disgust, ignoring, sometimes aggression, sometimes flattery (they smile, but behind their backs..."
  • 2
    Second Storge
    People with these qualities have high self-esteem and self-confidence. They are motivated and open to new ideas, tips, and suggestions. They are constantly working to improve the situation both for themselves and for others, making decisions and giving advice. They are able to take a creative approach to solving problems, make correct and adequate decisions, and confidently move towards the goal, even in difficult situations. They take into account the feedback from the person, do not impose their opinion if their advice is not accepted.

    In their actions, they take into account the compromise that a person needs, listen to suggestions and give additional advice, without imposing the result. In the process of education, they initiate mutual conversations, realizing that education is not only about establishing rules and order, but also about building a dialogue. They initiate mutual communication and discussion, where they can exchange respect, listen to each other, and try to understand the other's point of view.
    "I like to share with a person the information I receive, so that the person listens to me, perceives and accepts this information, and how he will use it is his business. I often want to share this information with people close to me in such a way that this person makes certain conclusions for himself, I want to somehow influence people close to me.

    If they do not obey, I will not be angry, but will try to find an approach to the person. Always looking for a way out of some situations) Yes) I am also often told that I am too soft a person. I try to distract someone with something completely different, I can encourage a person that they have a promotion or some kind of creative beginning, etc."
  • 3
    Third Agape
    Scope of attention and support in the area of anxiety. They may be demanding or have doubts. Sometimes they are afraid to make decisions that can lead to negative consequences. They gratefully accept gentle and situational support from others. This helps them better understand the situation and balance their thoughts, which is necessary to solve problems and achieve peace of mind.

    They usually don't like being forced to take care that they don't want to accept or do. This can be a manifestation of hidden contradictions, fears, or a desire to be independent. They feel uncomfortable and upset when they are forced to take care of themselves, and they start avoiding people who try to help them.

    In this area, they have a heightened perception of relationships. Sometimes they don't understand how much care people need, and sometimes they don't even understand themselves. From their point of view, it is important to be able to take care of yourself and others in such a way that it brings only positive emotions to everyone.
    "Yes, I love it very much, although more often it is at the level of my thoughts, since I am very careful about people's personal space in general, but I usually ask in such situations if I can do this or that, or if a person really needs help, then I immediately help.

    At the expense of support - I really love to support people with my word, I believe in them, I find the best sides and express them. I almost always understand when I need help, but still, sometimes there were cases when I couldn't figure out whether I needed it or not, and then after a while I found out from this person that I needed it(

    Yes, I always accept help. Quite a difficult question. It seems to me that I do both equally, I just don't know how it is compared to others..(I like to take care of others? Very)) Although it also depends on the person. Tactful and situational)) When a person thinks what is best, he knows and when they listen to your opinion..."
  • 4
    Fourth Filia
    They do not seek close and active interaction with others. They prefer individual work rather than collaboration with others. They can avoid long conversations and keep social contacts to a minimum. At the same time, they are not against friendship, but their willingness to communicate decreases if there is no initiative on the part of the interlocutor. They tend to shift the initiative to the person who started the conversation, which can be difficult for those who want to establish a friendly relationship with them.

    They appreciate communication with friends and the vivid emotions associated with friendship. However, they tend to avoid aimless activity, so as not to waste time, which sometimes happens in friendly relationships. It is important for them to have reliable and loyal friends with whom they can be honest. Such friends should be there for them for a long time, regardless of the difficulties that may arise. Because of this friendship, they feel safe and can build deeper and closer relationships.
    "I can initiate an acquaintance if I really like the person, but if not, I expect it. If you think about it, I have about 10 friends, but I don't have such close contact and understanding with them as with one of my close friends. Our friendship is very valuable, as we understand each other very well.

    In general, I am open to many people, I like communication with others, emotions, maybe some new information. At the same time, I depend on someone else's opinion. It depends on how that person treats me. If a person starts to doubt our friendship, then I start to wonder: "was it friendship?" and I start to get disappointed in what happened."