AMATORICS
COMMUNICATOR
FESA
FESA
The Communicator is a person with excellent communication skills who is able to interact effectively with others. They respect other people's opinions and strive to create a comfortable atmosphere for conversation. The communicator recognizes the value of trust in relationships and is willing to clarify situations to restore harmony. Showing sympathy is natural for him, and he expresses it through compliments and support for the interests of loved ones. However, sometimes it can be difficult for them to figure out where to move in a relationship and how to make important decisions. The Communicator is open to tactful advice, but does not always realize how much they need care and help. In difficult moments, he needs support, although he may not immediately admit it.
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Description by function
- 1First FiliaThey know how and with whom to communicate. They are able to find effective ways to communicate with others. They communicate actively, correctly addressing others and taking into account their character and mood. They respect other people's opinions, understand and follow the rules of good form in conversation. They can also determine the format of communication with other people themselves. They perfectly understand and realize how much you can trust this or that person.
Depending on how much time people spend communicating with others, they understand how important it is to set boundaries of trust. They realize that trust is the foundation of a healthy and productive relationship.
Unpleasant communication makes them want to immediately clarify the situation. They believe that to achieve a friendly relationship, you need to find common ground and have an honest conversation to avoid misunderstandings. To do this, you need to make an effort and try to understand each other. Then the relationship will become friendly and productive."Interacting with people is easy and enjoyable. I initiate the interaction myself. It also happens from the outside, but more often itself. For me, there is no problem to approach the person I like and start communicating. Either write first, or go for a rapprochement. It is quite easy to establish initial communication. I can start talking first, and "throw up" topics for discussion if there is a positive reaction from the opponent to our conversation.
I trust in principle, too, easily, the loan is initially issued to everyone very large. However, it is already more difficult to maintain further communication and translate it into the category of friendship. There must be mutual respect, a sense of team, "one for all and all for one", the concept of "friends and foes", loyalty. Friendship between people is based on mutual support for each other in difficult times, common interests, hobbies, and activities.
Unfriendly attitude? Depends on who. If it suddenly started from someone who is already quite close — I'll call or write myself and ask what happened. If he explains the reason, for example, that you need time to be alone and sort yourself out, then I will not bother you and wait until this period passes. And from an outsider-in principle, I don't care, I just won't communicate. Although for myself I may try to find out the reasons for this, maybe some specific quality is annoying. I try to take note of criticism from the outside." - 2The Second ErosIn relationships, people show sympathy gently and naturally. It can be a reaction to an interesting person or a remarkable behavior. Sympathy is directed at those who evoke positive emotions and make a good impression. Compliments are expressed creatively, trying to find the qualities that the other person has.
Sympathy can be expressed through symbolic or beautiful statements that express love or respect for the person to whom they are addressed. In addition, compliments can be expressed in different ways: through sonorous speech evaluations, gestures, or a smile. When they show sympathy for other people, they try not to go overboard and hurt their feelings. They don't do anything that might cause an emotional contradiction.
They always try to admire people and their work without abusing their respect. They show sympathy to support the interests of those they love and respect. To maintain communication, relationships and mutual understanding, show relationships with love, warmth and respect. They try to find compromise solutions, eliminate shortcomings and contradictions, so that everyone is satisfied. They try to avoid unnecessary quarrels and create a good atmosphere based on their sympathies."It is not difficult to show sympathy. Showing warm, friendly or not-so-friendly feelings for someone, or showing interest in someone. I can say something nice, compliment, praise for something, give some help. It's not difficult. But unlike friendly sympathy, this is usually in response to someone else's. I will not persist in seeking attention, offering my friendship, and banging a tank through closed doors.
I respond to liking myself. My scourge in general is slow ignition and understanding, the feeling of falling in love. A man has to break spears on the gates of my castle pretty much to impress me :) The main thing is not to end suddenly, when you yourself have already developed feelings. There are no doubts about sympathy, I usually understand. Well, I like most people, and if I want to, I can strengthen and develop my sympathy."
- 3Third StorgeIt is difficult for them to understand how their relationships are developing. They understand that the situation is ambiguous, and they need to make a decision on how to proceed. They spend a lot of time trying to figure out what's going on, but they still don't know what to do. They can assess how their relationship is developing, but they don't know where it will lead. It is difficult for them to accept advice, especially if it is given by strangers or if the advice does not correspond to their point of view.
When they are given advice, they feel that the person giving it is smarter or more experienced. From their point of view, the person giving advice may not know all the details, conditions, or importance of the situation. They are open to advice, but they want it to be given tactfully. They believe that people should be empathetic and not offend or neglect each other's opinions. They are also willing to accept constructive criticism. This person believes that others can offer him something valuable, even if he does not fully understand how the world works."I can't say that I like to give advice. But I can and do when there is a need. It's up to the individual to decide how to act in the end anyway, not because someone told them to. I can describe my vision of the situation, how it seems to me, what led to what, what further actions will cause it, but I very rarely give direct instructions and advice. I myself have doubts about the direction, but this applies specifically to issues for the future, global. Here I am often confused, trying to figure out which direction to move in, how to do it correctly.
I can only accept these tips if they are properly submitted. I will listen, take note, and possibly take this opinion into account in the final decision, especially if it is the opinion of an important or authoritative person for me. If I have asked for advice, I will be grateful that they paid attention and time to me and my question. If I get unsolicited advice, I'll thank you dryly. If unsolicited advice crosses the line of decent and becomes too persistent and massive, then I will stop it harshly in words and close the topic." - 4Fourth AgapeShowing care and assistance in a relationship can be challenging, as different people may have different ideas about how to do it. They may not realize that they need support in some situations. This does not mean that they are inattentive or lazy. It's just that they may lack information or help, so even if they are very familiar with the situation, sometimes they still need help and support.
Some people may be indifferent to care because they are not aware of their needs. But they may actually need care, and they may subconsciously expect it from others. They may not do a good job of comforting and supporting themselves in difficult situations. They need the help and support of other people, their words and actions.
It's important that they have a template that helps them understand how to take care of people, animals, health, and the environment. This template should contain clear principles and algorithms for achieving goals."I am a rather stupid person in terms of showing concern, at least physically. I need to either think specifically about what needs to be done to help a person, or better yet, to ask for it — then I'm happy. But I can't even guess that this is required. It's hard for me to take care in terms of providing comfort and coziness. I don't like cooking, I don't like cleaning, I don't like putting things in order, I don't like decorating the house, and so on. I can provide emotional support, but that's not my strong suit either.
What kind of care they show me - it doesn't matter in principle. I'm an omnivore in this regard. Feed me, take care of me from all sides, shower me with money - it's really very nice )) I love being taken care of, and I accept care even though I don't ask for it. I don't like to ask for help, usually. To the last I try to understand and solve the issues myself. Although there are times when you want someone to come and unload urgently."